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Charikot, the headquarter of Dolakha district is about 130 km from the capital city, Kathmandu. Besides offering a stunning view of the mountain range; domestic tourists flock this region to pay respect to Dolakha Bhimsen which has its own religious importance. Our initial plan was to hike to Kalinchowk the next day from Charikot. Not surprisingly as life would have it – didn’t exactly turn out the way we expected.

Accompanied by my brother, cousin, and an awesome driver (along with his kick-ass hindi movie song playlist), our journey began early in the morning at 7:30 a.m. from Tinkune. It was my first time witnessing 6-lane highway in Nepal that leads all the way to Suryabinayak. Possibly the only bump-free non-existent-traffic-jam ride I had experienced in Nepal.

As we bid farewell to Kathmandu valley we were greeted by an utterly breathtaking sceneries. Despite the heavy rain, it didn’t quite affect our scenic drive. Leaving behind Bhaktapur, a long stretch of Banepa, and Dhulikhel, soon started a winding road to Dolakha.

A must do on your way to Dolakha is to stop by Dolalghat; to try out some fresh local fish. There are quite a few eateries around. Nomatter where you choose to go I guarantee an excellent tasting fish with a lot of Nepali dish choices.

Sunkoshi river (Dolalghat)

Picture above: Dolalghat eateries

After an appetizing meal we made our way to Khadichaur. Quick note: about half-an-hour drive from Khadichaur the two-way highway is reduced to one lane, making the trip all the more adventurous. Picture below: Khadichaur bridge.

Near Mude, closest town to Charikot.

And we finally reached our destination. Picture below: Charikot downtown

Reached Bhimeshowr temple area around 1 p.m.
In the picture below: Bhimeshowr locals

My brothers running ahead of me. At the end of this stairway lies the temple.

Bhimeshowr Temple


Hello! Hello! smiling mini goat 🙂


Thaali for lunch. Great food outside the vicinity of the temple.

It was a cloudy rainy day, didn’t get to see the mountain range. Still was a memorable trip.A goat casually walking by.

On our way back it seemed to be snowing in Mude. Upon a closer look we discovered it was a small pea-sized hail. **Majestic**

With that we said goodbye to Dolakha.

Where is Justice for Women?

As a woman nothing affects me more than the news I come across everyday about the rape cases. I feel like my own body being violated. It physically and mentally disturbs me. I still have not fully read Sita’s story. In fact I don’t ever read the details. It feels too close. I know I could never feel Sita’s ordeal in the truest sense. I will probably never meet her and will get to tell her that I am with her. But I know one thing I can do, is raise my voice against this injustice. Equally depressing is our Nepali government very conveniently ignoring this case and many more similar cases. Think about it, what if Sita was your own daughter, sister, mother or your very close friend? How would you feel? How would you feel about being forcefully touched, grabbed, and humiliated? How would you feel?

We are living in the 21st century but things really have not changed. Those who say west have it much better- aren’t any better off either. I realize, this is an ongoing fight. For the right to live the way we want to live. For the right to be where we want to be; for just any basic rights that any other humans are bestowed with. Why can’t women do the same?

Why is it anybody’s headache – if a woman wants to dress a certain way, wants to hang out till late night? If a man could do it, why can’t a woman do it as well without the fear of being raped and abused?  When we are talking about punishing the criminals of this horrendous act- why is the discussion hijacked by the ‘kind’ of woman a woman is. Why does it have to matter? Why is it diverted from the crux of the matter and the matter is; a man raped a woman and that man needs to be penalized. Today the Indian woman succumbed to death from the gang rape.  And what did the Indian government do? This incident only exposed Indian politicians’ sexist prejudices against women. Such a shame. How many women will have to be victimized, how many of us will have to die before men respect the boundaries. Just how many?

Whether it was the most recent gang rape case in India. The 7-year-old little girl’s case in China; the woman kidnapped at gunpoint- raped and killed in the US. Millions of women, who get abducted, abused and sold in prostitution or even the case of Sita who got robbed and raped by a policeman. When is it going to stop? And what government is going to do about it? We want answers, we want actions being taken. We want criminals punished. We want justice for women.

Nepali Flag Nail Art

Nepali Flag Nail Art

When I tweeted this picture, I thought it was one of those images that had the capacity to go viral in Nepali domain. To my utter dismay, it didn’t even receive any kind of acknowledgement much less the prospect of going viral. Nonetheless, I must thank a couple of people who at least ‘liked’ it on instagram.

It was inspired by female olympians flaunting their patriotic nail art at the recent 2012 Olympics. It took me quite a while to replicate the flag. Considering the amount of effort I put in, this image at least deserved a post on my blog. Hence the reason I am writing this.

Happy drawing/painting! 🙂

Citizen and Women Power

I genuinely believe this is a great time to be alive especially if you are a woman and also a Nepali citizen. I take immense pride in saying this because the world is finally beginning to recognize the power of women and their penetrating influence across the board. Women have always emerged as leaders in times of crisis. During this recession, for the first time women became the majority of the American workforce. According to Hanna Rosin’s article published in the Atlantic; in America, young, childless, single women now earn more than men do. Women today hold the purchasing power and significantly influence market dynamics. It has really taken this long for the world to acknowledge that women are in fact an untapped resource and ignoring women-power means ignoring development.

This statement may sound a little arrogant or absurd at a time when Nepali government recently banned women under 30 from working in the Middle East. First of all, Nepali government is a whole another topic that I shall discuss in a separate post including the socio-political consequences of Nepali women working abroad as a laborer. Secondly, yes, the majority of the Nepalese society is still a victim of conventional dogma that limits the role of women. Despite this narrow-mindedness I am utterly optimistic. In today’s technologically driven world there is no other way to go but to move forward. The exponential growth of technology is rapidly changing the way we interact with one another. With the free flow of information, the power now lies in the hands of ordinary people like us. Due to the influence of emerging technologies, open communications the speed of development is accelerating. Thus, in order to survive in today’s world – we must adapt to these changes. As Darwin once famously described as ‘survival of the fittest’. Those who choose to persist changing with time despite the challenges; will continue to exist. Where as those who choose not to; will be deemed irrelevant and ousted.

It is equally an awesome time to be a Nepali citizen because young Nepalese are truly walking the walk as opposed to their predecessors. The young generation is in tuned with the nuances of local needs at the same time very well-acquainted with the effects of globalization. Every day you get to read about the young Nepalese making a difference in their society. Whether it is about Kathmandu Cycle City 2020, where they have come together to work with the government to make Kathmandu a cycle friendly city or even something as poignant as initiating the graffiti art work on the political-slogan-filled walls of Kathmandu. This is a proof that the young Nepalese are ready to write their own stories. Willing to sing their own songs and march to the beat of their own drum. These young people are dreamers, risk takers. They are the true movers and shakers of this nation.

We belong to a generation who has come to terms with the reality that key to development lies in women empowerment and gender equality. Not every generation gets to be a part of the movement that defines the future. I believe we are that awakened generation of women and men and together we are shaping the future of our country heralding a new era of development.

San Francisco (SF) Chinatown

If you’ve lived your whole life in a place like Kathmandu, you would fall in love with what they boast as the largest Chinatown outside of Asia in San Francisco. The layout is strikingly similar to Thamel including the ambiance. Except, the air may not ooze the aromatic smell of incense – which if I can remember is totally a Thamel thing. But that’s still okay, cause trust me contrary to most reviews this place does not stink! 28% of the populations living in this city are Chinese; they all came during the gold rush of the 1848 that lasted for seven years. Now giving people like me the opportunity to enjoy the Asian influence.

Talking about what you can discover in SF Chinatown, pretty much everything and anything under the sun. From dried snakes to all kinds of spices and herbs. Including big souvenir shops full of South Park action figures to squirrel underpants. Seriously, squirrel underpants! what’s that for? I don’t know, a real under-pant for squirrel I guess. I still don’t know the real purpose. But if you ever need ‘em, you know where to find ‘em.

Tihar 2011

This Tihar would probably be the last one in this city. And the very first one where I bothered to put an effort. Notice the DIY acrylic-paint-mandap. I don’t even know if this place sells any colored sands. Nonetheless, to keep the mess to a minimum and also show off my non-abstract art skills – used the paint. The rest is the magic of light [photography] and genetically manipulated flowers.